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All your Dynamics.
One place to run them.

Dommy is a management platform for consensual D/s relationships. It runs the day-to-day: tasks, routines, agreements, locks, and the people involved.

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Roles belong to each Dynamic. Lead in one, follow in another.

Illustration of the Dommy workspace: a dynamic switcher, today’s counts, a morning check-in, time remaining, and task progress.

Your built-in assistant

Meet Dommy

Dommy drafts tasks, organizes check-ins, and keeps a Dynamic running smoothly.

For those who lead: Dommy drafts and organizes. For those who follow: Dommy keeps everything straight.

Dommy assists; the people in the Dynamic decide.

Use every app for what it’s good for

Where you find people, where you post, where you chat: those stay yours. Dommy takes over the part they were never built for. No more notes apps, spreadsheets, and buried chat threads holding a relationship together.

Always current

Open Dommy and see where things stand: what’s due, what’s waiting, what changed since you last looked.

Your things stay yours

Preferences, limits, content, and the items you bring belong to your account. Each Dynamic sees what you let it see, and it all moves with you.

What Dommy manages

Concrete tools for the day-to-day. Each Dynamic turns on what it uses.

Tasks & routines

Assign, track, and review, with deadlines where you want them.

Lock sessions & timers

Timed sessions with clear state and history, on terms set together.

Agreements & preferences

Terms and limits written down once, where both of you can see them.

History

What happened and when, recorded as you go.

Two sides, one relationship

One account works both ways.

For those who lead

Your roster, reviews, timers, and whatever needs your attention in one console. Dommy handles the organizing and busywork you give it, so you can focus on leading.

For those who follow

Your inventory, preferences, agreements, tasks, and routines organized across every Dynamic you’re in. Dommy helps you keep it all straight and gives you a clear view of what you’ve agreed to.

Security first

People trust Dommy with things they wouldn’t put anywhere else. That shapes how it’s built.

  • No passwords

    Passkeys and one-time email codes. Nothing to steal or reuse.

  • Private by default

    No feed, no directory, nothing indexed by default. Nothing becomes public unless you choose to publish it.

  • Never for sale

    No ads, and your data is never sold. Dommy is paid for by the people who use it.

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